Friday, January 28, 2011

An engineer finds his true calling in the classroom

Brent Taylor never thought of himself as a teacher.

The 37-year-old Lorain man made a career as a computer engineer for a Westlake firm. Then, about 10 years ago, he started having kids. He watched the joy in their eyes as they learned something new and a light bulb went off in his head.

“I just didn’t want to work for years and have that unsatisfied feeling of working more for my job than my family,” he said.

Friday morning, Taylor was talking about his impending job switch in a colorfully decorated classroom at Elyria Schools Kindergarten Village. On a large sheet of paper clipped to an easel, students were signing in under a message that said, “Dear friends, Today is Friday, Dec. 3, 2010. Today we say goodbye to Mr. Taylor.”

After five weeks of hands-on work in Barb Anderson’s classroom, Taylor’s time in the classroom as a student teacher is coming to an end. But his goal of one day becoming a teacher is in full swing.
“I’m switching because I don’t want to be stuck behind a desk working in engineering for the rest of my life,” he said. “I wanted to become a teacher because I want to share what I have learned in my life with kids. I want to be a positive role model in their lives.”

The father of three is a senior at Baldwin-Wallace College and hopes to return to the classroom as a teacher in roughly a year. But he is quick to point out he never dreamed of being a teacher. Even when he took an aptitude test at Lorain County Community College and teaching popped up as a good career choice, Taylor said he still wondered if it was for him.

Then, one day he was working at his home. Two inquisitive neighborhood boys came over and wanted to know what he was doing. For hours, they stood there soaking up everything he had to say, hanging on his every word. Taylor said, unbeknownst to him, his wife was watching.

When the kids left, Taylor said, his wife turned to him and said, “Why not give teaching a try?”

The trend of late-in-life teachers or those who switch to teaching as second careers seems to be on the rise.
While some can assume it’s due to lingering uncertainty about the economy that has professionals looking for a better sense of job security, those in the education field see people turning to the classroom because they are searching for fulfillment in their lives.

“Every time I interview a candidate, I always ask them why they are looking to become a teacher,” said Gary Taylor, director of human resources for Elyria Schools. “Most of them say, ‘I’m looking for something more fulfilling to do’. It is not job security. You don’t become a teacher for the money. They want to make more of an impact.”

The profile of who is becoming a teacher is changing, but the why remains the same. The National Center for Education Information, which tracks individuals starting teaching careers through alternative teacher certification programs, found 62 percent of those who take an alternate route toward teaching do so because of a strong desire to work with young people. Valuing education in society and having an interest in the subject matter they wish to teach are also reasons why adults pursue teaching. The survey taken in 2005 said the average age of teachers in alternative teaching programs at that time was 30. At Baldwin-Wallace College, where a special licensure-only program was developed in the Education Department many years ago to give students varying avenues to teacher certification, there are roughly 50 students enrolled ranging in age from 25 to 60, said Karen Kay, chairwoman of the Division of Education.

“What we have found is what adult students know from their life experiences is helpful and they learn quickly,” she said. “When you have raised children or have children in school, you have a good context for teaching. You know what you are electing to do.” Kay said a number of older students admit to succumbing to family pressures to be lawyers, bankers or engineers when all along they dreamed of being teachers. Those are the ones who have the most success in the program because they already have the passion for teaching.
However, it can’t be discounted that for the most part, teaching does have the built-in perk of tenure. Taylor said young teachers just have to weather the early storms of being at the bottom of seniority lists that put them in the prime position to be laid off.

“Then, with seniority and a continuing contract, unless there is a major financial meltdown, they are in pretty good shape,” he said.

In Elyria, where there are 460 teachers in the classroom, the average age of teachers is 37 with 15 years of experience, Taylor said. Some are teachers who came to the district after working in other industries.
There are examples all over the district to pull from. At Elyria High School, Dena Waldock is the business teacher and comes to the district after 20 years in the financial market as a broker.

Charles Rudd, a second-grade teacher at Crestwood Elementary, came to the district five years ago after almost two decades in business. His first career was technology-based, and Rudd has used those skills to help fellow teachers incorporate Smart Boards in the classrooms. He even wrote an accompanying Smart Board computer program for a reading program called Wilson Fundations.

If it takes a teacher to know a teacher, Anderson, who is retiring this year after 30 years of teaching said she saw one in Taylor the moment he walked into her classroom. He was early that first day and very well prepared. He has been that way every day since.

“I always get a little concerned if (student teachers) don’t connect with kids,” she said. “I have been totally blown away by the quality we have here. He comes in early, stays late and puts his all into his lessons.”
Nearby, Taylor stood near a 4-foot handmade book that was one of those lessons. It started out as a daily lesson on reading and writing based on the popular children’s book “The Very Hungry Caterpillar.”
Taylor wanted the kids to write their own version of the book, “The Very Hungry Orange Room.” (The kindergarten classrooms at Kindergarten Village are separated by color instead of room number.) He gave each student a piece of paper that would become part of their caterpillar and had each write about their favorite fruit.

But the book kept growing and growing as Taylor struggled to find a fun way to display it for his pint-sized audience. “Imagine being the size of a five- or six-year-old and writing on something this size with this in your hand,” Taylor said with a pencil the size of a small baseball bat in his hand. “I think I just wanted the children to know anyone can be a writer, and when you write you have to have big ideas.”
Anderson said the students have loved to take their turn at the big book, but more impressive to her is Taylor’s motivation behind the book.

“This was not a culminating project or anything,” she said. “You would think he was building up to this over the past five weeks, but it’s just something he did to enhance his lesson. He just thinks that big naturally.”
Gary Taylor said late-in-life teachers bring a different kind of enthusiasm to the classroom that can only be learned through life experience.

“It’s sort of a different perspective and maturity,” he said.

Source: http://chronicle.northcoastnow.com/2010/

Until your wildest dreams come true


Have you ever heard about people who travelled the whole world looking for their true calling? People who had to spend nights outside watching the stars in the middle of terrifying jungles; people who fought monsters, escaped captivation and came back alive from death, people who saw their families and beloved ones tortured, raped or assassinated in front of them, people who carry weapons as their little kids because it is not a safe world out there? Those people, you wonder, can tell you about the real meaning of life; those people know exactly who they are; they have 'experiences'; they know the answer. Have you ever heard about people who retreat and spend hours and hours contemplating without even thinking about the word bored? People who have discovered that ‘scary’ inner world and live peacefully with it; people who ‘possess’ wisdom, people who understand life; people who have something to talk about.

What about you? Sitting on your chair; doing the same things everyday; no adventures; no big achievements. Ok wait a minute! I don't agree with all this madness. You don't have to fight a dragon to discover the sense of achievement. Who can give me an example of a dragon, a monster more dangerous and terrifying than Fear? You don't have to go to India; to meditate the whole day in order to uncover your true calling. You know it right here right now; whether you like what to do or you don't; you have the answer. You don't have to meet native people to understand love and compassion; you can see love and compassion right now on her or his eyes.

The bottom line is that the most important moment in your life is NOW. It may not seem that special because you are not in Hawaii drinking a refreshing cocktail and watching the ocean. But believe me, there is a huge ocean inside you. If only you choose to see and not to escape or hide from it all the time.
I dream of skydiving, I love it I know I am not that brave but flying is SUPER. I love diving too; the mystery of oceans appeals me; I want to see all that colours and creatures, closely. I love to jump from Australian mountains; to attend the Brazilian carnival; to visit India and spend a month there learning secret lessons about life. I want to walk on the Great Chinese Wall; I want to visit the moon; I want to make 'Tour d'Europe' on my feet or train; I want to have a dinner in the White House; to attend “le cirque de soleil”; to eat a real Italian pizza (still addicted to pizza and my home-made pizza is becoming more delicious every time; a great cooker is going to impress the world :) I want to spend a night watching the stars in front of a beautiful lake.... But until I make all or some of them come true, am I wasting my life? is what am doing not enough? Are people who did all of this understanding life more than me?

I had a conversation once with one of my friends, a journalist by the way. I know I have sometimes strange ideas that people cannot cope with. He was telling me: "I don't believe people who tell you how to live or what to do unless they had ‘huge experiences’"( maybe one of what I mentioned in the beginning). He said: “how can soemone leaving in a conformable neighbourhood write and tell me how to live?” I said: “you don't travel the world or try everything to discover true answers.” I am always convinced that everything is within, going from mini cooper (I love to drive a red one because I have never seen a rosy one :) or the ideal partner. Everything you want is inside you; all answers are inside you. He said: “you are young and you don't know anything about life.” I wondered, you have no idea :) I answered: “sometimes little experiences can teach you huge lessons and huge experiences can leave you with nothing.” I am convinced it is not about what you do or what you have is about YOU; what you are.

Lao Tzu (Oh that man really understands me; if he is still alive I would propose for him:) reiterated my thought (I Know he lived in the 4th century BC, so he is not reiterating my thought but Einstein said present past and future happen at the same time:). So Lao Tzu said:

Without stirring abroad, One can know the whole world; Without looking out of the window; One can see the way of heaven. The further one goes; The less one knows.”

Until your wildest dreams come true - and believe me they will do - keep dreaming but keep living the moment, you have yourself now and you will come back to yourself always. You will spend a month meditating in India; you will skydive (May Allah be with us:) you will realize everything you want but you will always come back to yourself; you will always have nothing but you. What you have done, you do or what you will do cannot tell anything about you. And half of people are miserable so they will always underestimate you, but you have billions of cells just in your brain and you have a reason to be a human being don't throw it away. Until your biggest dreams come true be happy, grateful and hopeful; love and give as much as you can because you receive as much as you give.

"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn
from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you
by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while
I may, for it may not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails
into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself
taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world,
your return." Mary Jean Iron

Source: http://arwakooli.blogspot.com/2010/11/my-daily-happiness-commitment-until-r.html

Thursday, January 27, 2011

How to discover your true calling

Many Talents

The ultimate question asked by everyone is "What is my true calling?" Some of us may feel we don't have anything legitimate. Then there are others we all want to roll out eyes at which may have a hard time narrowing down what they would believe to be theirs. Despite the different approaches on this question, the journey towards the answer remains the same.
  • An open mind
Things You'll Need:
  1. ASSESS YOUR TALENTS. We are all born with unique talents. You may be gifted in the arts be it writing, visual, acting, singing or dancing. Some talents may not necessarily be as obvious. Some of these are hospitality, knowledge, administration and the like. Do not disregard any capability. "And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified" (Romans 8:30). If you doubt whether spoon juggling is a talent, research the web to see how thousands of others have taken their "insufficient" talent and have received tremendous recognition for it.
  2. DEVELOP YOUR TALENTS. Practice makes perfect. Once you have discovered these talents, if you have not yet done so, take at least one hour of your day to train or practice this skill. This will enhance what you have already assessed. It can also direct you into other avenues of talent you never knew you had. Take this time to read the story of "The Parable of the Talents" in Matthew 25 and you'll see what I mean.
  3. WORKFORCE? Decide whether you see yourself utilizing these talents as a hobby, profession or ministry. Remember that a non ministerial job does not make you less of a Christian. "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men" (Colossians 3:23). If it is something you would see yourself doing as a profession, research various websites or companies within that field that will allow you to do so. For example, visual arts can be found in various Graphic Design, Web or Multimedia jobs. Drama, singing, writing or even dancing can be pursued within theater or teaching. Hospitality jobs can be found within the hotel industry while administration can be achieved in the corporate world or any company needing organizational support.
  4. MINISTRY? Should you feel your talents can manifest within a ministry, look within your local church to see where you can participate. Is there a drama group within your church? Not only can you contribute with acting, but you can assist in writing scripts, props and stage background drops and in some cases maybe even dancing. If you have the gift of hospitality, you can become a greeter or usher. Administrators can probably find places in committees as secretaries or treasurers. Some select few may even feel they are called to be a minister. If this is you, GOOD LUCK! If you're looking for job descriptions of what the church is looking for, take a look at the big book! (1 Timothy 3)
  5. TAKE THAT FIRST STEP. Although many discover their talents, few take that first steps by walking in their calling through them. Just remember that God has blessed us all with specific purposes (1 Corinthians 12:12-20). There is not one that is less specific than others. In fact, we are all supposed to live our purpose if we are to function as a whole.
By Yvonne Lopez